Wassup y'all first and foremost I wanna wish everyone a happy New year it's been a while since my last post. I wanna talk about something common but at the same time interesting...well to me anyway: Dating in modern society.
Now if you ask me I really don't see a significant difference between the two other than one allows for premeditated predation while the other doesn't. Now y'all don't quote me on none of this cuz I could be wrong...shit I probably am wrong I'm just a young black man with an opinion who is still finding himself so y'all gotta work with me lol. internet Courtship and online dating is at an all-time high. Netflix & Chill is taking the scene by storm and if you ask me I think it's a good thing. It might be a little rare to physically see somebody trynna bag somebody on the street... I mean you DO see it but look at the ratio of that with somebody leaving "yo check ya inbox/DM" under somebody picture on social media..now tell me I'm lying, with a straight face...I bet yo ass can't lmao. In my opinion the social media way of doing things in a way can kinda be better than the traditional method..hear me out
1. If you're the predator vs pray type this might be your twist. This gives the predator a chance to strategically choose his target. In most cases it starts immediately: the liking of pics and posts, the occasional 
...or if he's aggressive he'll go for broke and put "
...I normally do this after I get the number and I'm CERTAIN she diggin me and I get comfortable but we not talkin bout me lmao. Since predators tend to pray on the weak, they may go for the crackhead-strength having, Waiting To Exhale movie ass, "I don't need nobody for shit, I'm focusing on my kids" type female...they're normally the weakest ones. Why??? They normally have low self-esteem, lonely and in some cases thirsty for attention (despite consistently screaming otherwise). Always posting their every move, ,their personal business,throwing shade and just flat out talkin shit. He watches her activity and over time damn near knows everything but her social security number. This isn't totally a bad thing..after he got her math, they had they lil Applebees dates and been talkin a lil while they might actually dig each other and possibly blossom into something more than "Xfinity and Fold You Into A Pretzel"...unless he just wanted to bomb...but that's another story. We only talking bout casual dating and courtship..I ain't Montell. Basically in a nutshell I'm saying that he wouldn't be able to fill her out and be mentally prepared had he met her somewhere like the bus stop, randomly walking down the street, the club,etc.; He'd have to roll the dice and hope he gets the lucky 7 digits..(that was corny af lmao) He already has an idea of what she'd be like as a person before he met her...So if he already know she a irkbox from her timeline he can forfeit or he can entire his desires...which if it backfires will be on him, lol he did it to himself, he already knew she was a thorn in the side and a pain in the ass.
Then you have the traditional guy who still believes in the old fashioned way. If he's mature he may walk up on her respectfully, compliment her and ask for her name. If he's immature he won't even make the effort he'll cat call her from down or across the street like... "Yoooooo you in the red!! Come here real quick!" Or do some kiddy shit like holler out his number as she walks past him smhhhh bruh. Now this could actually work depending on the woman...the average one probably won't even pay dude no mind,probably for good reason..which may or may not bruise his ego cuz he'll just catch the next big booty lady walking down the block..but then like the woman it depends on character because you have that dude who it took a lot of guts to step to her especially in front of his boys...he probably gon cuss her out cuz he salty....she straight disrespected him. She put his thermometer on ice quick!!! real fuckin quick nigga!!! *Drake voice* lmao. Once again going back to my other point, his feelings of embarrassment could've easily been spared if the scenario were on social media, but that's not her problem tho....It's traditional to physically court a woman and in most cases it's ideal, but this is 2016 bruh, fuck all that.Folks ain't trynna find nothing serious folks just wanna "Bag & Bomb" what I like to call it shidddd even the women participate in the fuckery cuz alot of us dudes ain't worth a squirrel fart our damn self..all we can offer her ass is Popeye's and WiFi lol
In conclusion to this post I'ma leave y'all with this; I don't think it matters how you meet people. Bruh like who tf cares???. I hate when people especially older people say stupid shit like "You better watch yourself, people on the internet is crazy!!!!" My mom likes to call women I've met on social media "mail-order brides" like c'mon mama chill. People act like Lisa you met at Chipotle can't be off her rocker, like Kiesha you met at church don't need somebody to pray for her ass..Anybody can be a damn nut. You ever seen "It's A Thin Line Between Love & Hate"? "Uninvited Guest"??? "Temptation"????..well I ain't see that either but I heard ole girl in the movie got that Apartment In Dallas but that's not the point. Just like the person you met on Facebook can come to your house,tie you up and shove a broomstick in ya ass, the person you met off the street can do the same thing..it's all about a person's character. Shit you never know. You think Yolanda sweet for it cuz she gave into ya game but wholetime she a decoy for goofys like you...her boyfriend do kidnaps and ransom notes and now you in ya basement hogtied and every hour on the hour somebody come downstairs to fart on you,cut skin off your body and pee on your wounds until ya mama come up with that sack....NOW THINK ABOUT THAT and call me tomorrow.
I'm out y'all
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